Knowing Character Traits of Your Friends
The success of any friendship depends primarily on trust, love and congruous mental thinking. It also depends upon the acceptance of overt as well as covert character traits of friends. Although overt traits become apparent easily enough, their covert counterparts may take a long time to surface or may not surface at all.
Graphology comes in handy in such cases. For, identification of traits can easily be done with the help of graphology, i.e., handwriting analysis, without going into the process of wait- and-watch, or unnecessary enquiry or other such mechanisms. It can save a lot of time and yet give accurate reading of character traits. Thus it serves as a CT Scan, may we say, and just as a glance is enough for an expert to confirm his diagnosis, so also an expert graphologist can do the job of making a diagnosis of the other person’s character traits by merely looking at his handwriting sample.
Graphology can minutely detect the numerous traits of a person, if one has the requisite skill and application. However, for the sake of brevity, we shall limit ourselves to the more important ones that merit one’s immediate attention. These are:
| 1. Honesty & Loyality |
2. Intelligence |
3. Co-operation |
| 4. Time wasting tendency |
5. Trouble making tendency |
6. Dependability |
| 7. Carelessness. |
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Let us now proceed to apprise you as to how to spot these traits in a person’s script.
HONESTY
One may look for the following points in the script, for dishonesty.
(a) Uneven, unbalanced writing, words uneven in size and shape.
(b) Ovals open at the base particularly in ‘b’ and ‘d’.
(c) Quite uneven pressure throughout the script.
INTELLIGENCE
The script of a typical intelligent person will indicate the following traits; more these traits, the more the IQ.
(a) Simplification: School taught handwriting normally indicates normal
intelligence. Simplification of the letter form indicates intelligence, creativity and maximum utilization of available resources. It also includes no initial and ending strokes.
(b) Logic: Indicated by strong, even and balanced script. Also the words are essentially connected together.
(C) Concentration: Indicated by small size of the script, careful punctuation marks and constant medium-to-heavy pressure.
(d) sharpness/Alertness: Indicated by sharply pointed letters, esp.,’m’ and ‘n’.
CO-OPERATION
This trait can be easily identified by right-slanted script, with slightly angular ‘m and ‘n’. Script should be neat and clean with well formed letters. Pressure should be medium and even throughout and the capitals should be more than three times taller than the other letters.
Time Wasting Tendency
These people have quite extravagant style of embellishment in their writing. They normally use extra flourishes in word formations. Their script is also large and slow.
TROUBLE MAKING TENDENCY
These people seem to create trouble wherever they go or whatever they do. They feel quaint, sadistic pleasure in generating a trouble and then solving it, thereby gaining uncalled-for importance. These people have heavy-pressured script with backward or verticle slant and unwanted or unexpected variation of letter sizes, in normal flow of script. In their script, ‘m’ and ‘n’ are pointed, ‘p’ is made quite sharp and the t-bar rather heavy.
DEPENDABILITY
This precious trait can be detected easily enough from the following points in a script: The person would have straight lines of writing and small letters, all of the same size, script quite neat and clean and never out of proportion.
CARELESSNESS
This can be easily detected by following points in a script.
-Careless punctuation and letter formation.
-T -bars and i-dots occassionally left out.
-Uneven margins
-Bad spacing; words and lines tangled.
-Envelopes illegibly addressed.
A careful examination of the above-listed points in a script will help minimize the emotional setbacks and lead to a long lasting friendship. These character trait identifications are also very helpful in spotting the right kind of employees/ workers, and of course, working partners.
 Rajan Chopra
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