Marriage Hurdles & Management of
Mangal Dosh
When it comes to marriage, parents are always concerned about their son & daughter regarding the mangal dosh. In today’s world this mangal dosh is a terror amongst people, as a result of which, parents use to search a mangalik boy for their manglik daughter. This is one of the reasons for the delay in marriage of the daughter. According to the Astrologers, due to the ill effects of mangal dosh, many girls have to live without marriage throughout their life. This situation is dreadful for her parents. Common men don’t know that different situations of mangal dosh have the possibility of dissolving in the horoscope itself. If this is not the case, then how to get rid of this so called hurdle. The question arises what is the solution to this problem which can minimize its bad effects?
Mangal Dosh
Healthy & Happy living of men is dependent upon the fulfilled, flourished & enjoyable married life. In a healthy married life one needs health, wealth, long life & understanding among the two. This is the reason why even modern people used to match the horoscopes before marriage. This is tradition which we are following since our Vedic Yug. We cannot hide a dosh while matching the horoscope of a boy & a girl.
Janmang mein Mangal ke lagnastha, dritiyastha, Chaturyastha, Saptamastha, Ashtmastha & Duadastha hone par mangal dosh hota hai.
Lagne vyaye va patale, jamitre chashtmein kuje. Kanya Bhartha vinashaye bharta kanya, vinashaka.
Keral ki Bhavdeepika k anusar dhane vyaye ch patale, jamitre chashtmein kuje.
Strinam Bhartha vinash syat, bharta ch stri vinashay.
As per Astrologers, Lagna symbolizes body, Chandra symbolizes thoughts & Shukra symbolizes night charm. Due to lagna, Chandra & Shukra, mangal griha is settled in the first, second, fourth, seventh, eighth & tenth place which causes mangal dosh to occur. In a horoscope, the five places where mangal dosh is placed, out of which if any brutal griha in association with mangal griha can become double, triple, fourfold & if all the brutal griha are placed either together or shuttled, so it has fivefold effect of mangal griha on the horoscope.
Lagnastha Mangal Dosh
Lagnastha make a mangalik man even more angry, stubborn because this griha is quiet aggressive. If placed at the fourth place then it can be harmful for family life. If placed at seventh place, can destroy married life also. At eighth place, it can be life destroyer of both wife & husband because eighth place is twice as harmful as seventh place.
Dritiyastha Mangal
The writer of Bhavdeepika, Kerala, has considered dritiyastha mangal a harmful one. This is the place of home & wealth which are very important in one’s life. Mangal at this place, destroys the family of man & a woman. This mangal keeps an eye on fifth, eighth & ninth place chronically & mangal griha at second place causes death of the son & hard luck throughout their life. Papakrant at second place causes differences in the relationships among family members.
Chaturtha Bhavastha mangal
It maintains the prosperity of husband & wife. It contributes in giving them enough wealth but it takes away peace from life. Due to the placement of unlucky eye on the husband, it creates differences between the two. It leads to thinking differences among the two. Chaturtha Bhavastha mangal is not capable of providing peace & prosperity. It has its eye on seventh, tenth & eleventh place. This type of mangal griha helps husband & wife to be at first place with a condition applied that Papakrant should be there otherwise it can lead to death as well.
Saptam Bhavastha mangal
Saptam Sthan is considered to be place for husband & wife. Saptam sthan has great importance from marriage prospective. In this, we consider peace of married life, same thoughts among the two, beauty & built of the opposite sex, his or her nature etc. Person who have mangal at seventh place faces problems after marriage. Health problems comes on & off in the life of the other one. Saptam Bhavastha mangal keeps a check on lagna sthan, dhan sthan & karm sthan which can lead to loss of wealth, handicapped child, accident & loss in the business. This condition of mangal creates sour relationship between the two & force them to live apart from each other. Mangal of Mesh, Singh & vrishichak makes the partner disrespectable. Study proves that Saptam Bhavastha mangal shows its ill effects in case of any rashi therefore mangal dosh should be checked. This also makes husband & wife a strong mangalik. These mangaliks are also known as kantghati. This type of mangal gives pain equal as death else they prepares ground for divorce.
Ashtam Bhavastha Mangal
By this type of mangal we come to know about hurdles in life, age, death, causes of death, place of death etc of the partner. In a girl's horoscope, it is considered to be a symbol of good luck. It ruins the whole married life. The other effects are loss of beauty & wealth, death of the partner. Partner faces pain in life as a result of intolerable mental condition. According to rishi Parasher, place of mangal at dhan sthan, one loses wealth & conflict. Every knowledgeable men has unanimously accepted the fact that this is the most dangerous situation of mangal griha.
As a result of this, husband & wife always faces the health problems consequently they loses peace of mind. According to the makers, it is very harmful in married life. It is very important to get out of this. If this kind of mangal is with vrash, kanya or makar rashi so, so it can prove good to them. If this is with kark, Vrashichak or meen so the possibilities of drowning of partner increases. He/she has to face the disrespect from the family.
Dwadash Bhavastha Mangal
With the help of this, we can think about salvation, sleep, journey, happiness, import export. As a result of this husband-wife loses internal affection. Partner loses temper, loses wealth becomes very cruel & criminal. It also increases the chances of accident & health problems. He can even kill his wife. If this mangal is placed at third, sixth & seventh place, then he can become the enemy of his fellow beings & faces health problems also.
Dissolution of Mangal Dosh
• It is well accepted fact that if a mangalik girl tie a knot with mangalik boy then it is helpful in reducing the bad effects of mangal.
• If girl is mangalik & boy has shani at the same place then mangal loses its effectiveness itself.
• If there is mangal griha at the time of birth but shani keeps an eye on mangal then mangal grih can be dissolved.
• In case of makar lagna, the combination of mangal of makar rashi & chandra of saptam sthan of kark rashi can reduce the risk of mangal grih.
• If somebody is having mangalik dosh & simultaneously having kark & singh lagna, then this can be calculated & can be removed.
• In a particular lagna, if Budh & Shukra are present then this can remove mangal dosh.
• If mangal is at anisht sthan & its boss is at center & triangle, then it loses this dosh.
• It is said that mangal loses its effectiveness in the 28th year but it is felt by many people that it shows opposite results.
• As per gurus, when mangal & rahu meets, it also leads to removal of mangal dosh.
• Some astrologers also say, if mangal guru meets yut or drishta, then also mangal becomes effect less. But study shows that mangal in guru rashi is very harmful & papakrant mangal throws its bad effects.
• Boys & girls having this kind of dosh can marry after matching the kundlies & taking proper precautions. To suppress the effects of mangal grih, one can follow the rules & regulations which are as per our traditions & guidelines.
• If mangal is placed at fourth & seventh place but brutal grih meets yut or drishta grih & mesh, kark, makar & vrishchak are present then mangal grih stop showing its bad results.
• But it was not with the case of Shri Ram Because he had Rajyog due to Saptam Bhavastha Mangal but he lived without Sita although guru had an eye on mangal.
• While matching the horoscopes, if mangal is placed at first, second, fourth, seventh, eighth place & if shani is placed among these mentioned places so mangal doesn’t show its ill effects.
• If mangal in chaturth position is of vrish or tula rashi then also it disappears.
• Mangal also suppressed when dwadash Bhavastha Mangal is of kanya, tula, mithun or vrish rashi.
• If mangal is there in boy’s horoscope & surya, Shani, rahu are present in girl’s horoscope then effects of mangal grih can be minimized.
Mangal Dosh Management
In Indian epics, different methods are mentioned to make God happy & get the things of luxury. For this date, time, season & festival are fixed. Methods are also mentioned for the delay in the marriage or throwing away mangal grih effects. Not only this world but even God & Goddesses have taken the opportunity to exploit the available resources to fulfill their demands.
Parvat Raj wanted Parvati to get marry with Shri Vishnu but Parvati wanted Shiva as her husband so she performed accordingly to get him as her husband. It is mentioned in Vishnu Puran also that Vishnu performed Samudra manthan to get Amrit & Laxmi. The moral is that we can change the ill effects of any bad thing in good effect by performing accordingly.
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